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in response to my feelings to Abortion .. its like murdering that of a life already born.. we have the choice to bring life into this world and if u are gonna engage in sexual activity of adults then be prepared for what may occur as occurance in doing so.. You can either get pregnant or get some type of STD in the process....

Aziell, my friend, you have the right to your opinion. But you are generalizing a complex issue far too broadly.

What if the mother goes for her ultra sound and finds out that the fetus is so badly deformed that the child has a high chance of being still borned or will die within it's first year. Should she carry through the pregnancy knowing that?

My boyfriend has a sister. She was pregnant with twins. She was very excited to be a mother. She went to get her ultra sound. There were no heartbeats. The babies were already dead. She had to have the poor things removed. Otherwise the toxins would have built up and probably killed her as well.

So before you say something is right or wrong, please remember that there are exceptions in every case.

sorry for that .. but what i mean on this is those people,who are afraid of rsponsibilities, like what i mention. Feel sorry to your sis, and if that happen to me, maybe it took so long to move on.

is it her first baby? heartbreaking situation, so bad.feel sad for her. lets just pray for them, sometimes too much expectations also really hurt.

Aizell, let me tell you my side of things. First, it is wrong of you to assum a woman getting an abortion is "afriad of responsibility". That was never a reason that passed through my mind when I choose abortion. (i'm sure for some women that is the reason. And it makes me upset when women do it for that reason because it gives abortion a bad rep.) Want to know my reason, and I'm sure a large majority of women?

It has nothing to do with ourself. It is not because we want to be able to party whenever we want and not have to change a diapper. It is because we KNOW our child deserves better then the life we can provide at that point in time. What can a 17 year old give to a child? We want our children to have a father. We want to be able to give that child a real home. We want to be able to take them on family vacations. And if we KNOW we can not guarantee that for our child we should not be forced to bring that child into a life of suffering. Not only would our child suffer but so would our families.We don't want our families to suffer from our coniquences, they would be the ones most likely buying the diapers and clothes. We don't want to rely on the government to give us money to raise OUR children.

When I have a child I want to be able to RAISE them. Not just SUPPLY the bare minumum for them. I want my child to live a safe, happy life. And I can not do that at 17 so it is not fair for my child.

I would do anything to have that baby, trust me. But I made that sacrifice so my child, my family, my ex's family and my ex would not have to live a life they did nothing to deserve. I don't mind suffering for my child but no matter how hard I tried I could not give my baby a father and the life it deserves.

Please don't let the few people who use abortion badly give you a distored vision of how most women use it.

just don't be ignorant.

Well learn from me then please. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE because this topic is so important to me. No matter what you choose after you are pregnant you have consiqences, abortion does not get rid of the problem it just creates a new one. I do a lot of therapy now to deal with it. DO NOT GET PREGNANT when you are not ready to have a child.

I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I was going to get the plan B pill but I wasn't old enough to get it at the pharmacy at that time and I didn't have acess to a planned parenthood. That is why planned parenthood is so important. If i was able to get that pill I would not be in this situation.