this is a list of names and who they are to me so that i dont have to explain it when i am telling the story
Dj- my son Jason- my oldest bro
Danny my middle bro Luke-my bro just older then me
Jd- my lil bro that passed away Mandy- bio mother
Jess- adopted mom BY CHOICE Haylee- my bff/adopted sister
Hi my name is sara Im a 23 year old single mother of a beautiful 1 year old son. He is my motivation he is my everything! I wanna do this for him. I want him to be able to have and do all the things that I didnt get to when u was growing up! I will be a better parent then my bio mom.
I just want to tell everyone reading this that there is always someone who has had a worse life then you! and I am not telling people my story so that they will feel sorry for me or pitty me. But what you go threw in life is what makes you who you are.
yeah parents, people, and events affect your life to a certian point but there comes a time when what happens to you is in your control. You are the only person that can decide how your life will be! thats what I am doing!!
Ok! here is my story summerized.
when i was 5 JD was 3 and he passed away of cancer, at that point my mom "went off the rocker" an abandoned her four other children including me. she left us with my biological father who was a drug addict, sexually, & physically abusive. When we were with him we were lucky to eat one meal a day cause he spent all of out welfare & foodstamps on dope. so Jason 17yo was going to highschool & he took over raising me & luke. danny had ran away to find mandy. when she came back over a year after she left she was a tweaker who spent all her money on drugs & whatever man she was with at the time! her childrens needs were not important. all her bfs she allowed to do whatever they wanted they were all copies of my biofather.
any xmas presents, thanksgiving dinner, xmas dinner were all donated to us by our school.
and that is just a very short version of my child hood. but you can see why I will not let my son live like this! I want him to go to school Fieldtrips, get to go on vacations, i want to be able to afford his presents, and be able to send him to college, and take him on vacations! I JUST WANT DJ TO HAVE A LIFE THAT I DIDNT! I WANT HIM TO BE VERY HAPPY!
i just want to know share people to know that no matter what you can control your life all you gotta do is set your mind to it and find something that motivates you to want to do it or change who you are! & for me that is my son!